Whenever one of my children takes a fall (and I have four children, so there have been plenty of falls!), I always tell each one of them to get right back up and keep going.
There’s a good lesson in there: When you make a mistake, the best thing to do is pick yourself back up and carry on.
The same can be said about dieting.
Every once in awhile… okay, more often than you’d like, you feel the pull of the hot fudge sundae, and you just… can’t… resist.
But just like you get back up after a fall, you can get back on your healthy-eating plan.
And in fact, instead of driving yourself crazy with guilt anger and shame, here’s something to chew on: A recent study found that women who allowed themselves to cheat occasionally actually lost more weight than those who never strayed.1
Turns out, when you allow yourself that occasional treat, reward or celebration, you are more likely to enjoy your process of weight management, get to your goal and stick to it. Or think like this: if you ruminate about what’s on your plate, fat will be your fate.
So what do you do when you scarf that bag of chips, inhale that fudge brownie, or break down and dive head-first into a bowl of mac & cheese?
5 Post-Cheating “No-No’s”
First, let’s take a look at what not to do:
Detox: There is no evidence whatsoever that a detox diet is linked to the body’s ability to burn calories. And unless you really know what you’re doing, detoxes can be dangerous.
Sauna: Any weight lost while sweating it out will be right back in the minute you take a drink of water.
Over-exercising: When you push yourself too hard, the only thing you’ll wind up losing is your energy for the rest of the day. Or a doctor’s co-pay, as you may end up with pulled muscles or a case of dehydration.
Fasting: When you cut your calories that drastically, your body goes into starvation mode, and your metabolism will come to a screeching halt. So not eating anything at all will actually have the opposite effect of what you want.
Laxatives: Using a laxative to kick out the remnants of that pie ala mode only serves to clean your colon, because the calories (and fats) have already been absorbed. You may be less constipated, but you won’t be any leaner.
Instead, Do This After You Cheat
It may seem paradoxical, but after you go off course, the best way to get back on track is to eat. Here are some strategies I recommend:
Use a meal replacement for your next meal: More than a dozen clinical trials show that diets containing one to three meal replacements per day result in more weight loss than healthy diets without them.
Try these pre-meal tricks:
Drink a protein shake: In a controlled-setting study, subjects who consumed a protein shake before an all-you-could-eat buffet ate fewer calories than those who didn’t. And the more protein consumed, the less the subjects ate. Those who had 34 grams of protein half an hour before the buffet consumed the equivalent of a whopping 300 calories less than those who did not.3
Eat an apple: Eating a whole apple before lunch significantly reduced overall calorie intake by 15 percent, or 190 calories on average according to one study.4
Try a soup or salad: One study discovered that enjoying a low-calorie soup before a meal may reduce calorie intake by as much as 20 percent! And it’s not just bland broth that does the trick — chunky veggie or pureed veggie soups worked just as well.5
Similarly, another study that had folks munch on a low-calorie salad pre-meal reduced overall meal-calorie intake by seven percent for a small salad and 12 percent for a larger one.6
Note to self: Cheesy, cream soups with bacon or salads smothered in cream dressings and festooned with croutons and bacon bits does not count as low-calorie!
Increase the fiber: One of fiber’s many super powers is that it controls hunger, keeping your cravings at bay. Here’s why… One meta-analysis (a study of studies) determined that increasing your fiber intake helps you stay fuller for longer, meaning you won’t crave those night-time snacks.
Another study showed that adding 14 grams of fiber a day causes an increase in weight loss of a pound a month. Meaning, if you change nothing about your diet other than adding fiber daily, you can lose an average of 12 pounds in one year.7
Here is one final thought that can be powerfully effective after you’ve cheated. Learn positive self-talk. An interesting study showed that folks who successfully got to their goal weight and maintained did these three things: They focused on the progress they made, kept their goals in mind and indulged in the knowledge of how much better they were feeling as they got thinner.8 This attitude is critical for success.
If you have your own post-cheating success strategies, I’d love to hear all about them.
Dr. Steven Sisskind, M.D.
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